Close relationships

The most important part of this article to me was were it was talking about how we tend to push people away that we actually want to be close to in an attmept to keep from getting hurt. While reading about this I realized that I do this so much. I will get really close to someone but then start to do little things to make them want to leave me. I believe I do this because i would rather them either just leave before I get to attached to them are because I want to see if they really care and will stay no matter what.